It's simply amazing to me how so many people are skeptical and in general...negative. Now...I could be off base with this. But, it's just an observation. People are so quick to see the negative before the positive. Why is that? Well...turn on your TV and watch the news and you can see how that can be. The news primarily focuses on bad or negative stuff. All the bad events of the day. But, for a brief moment of the broadcast, you'll hear about the good. That is simply amazing to me. That...has had a major impact on how society thinks. When you are bombarded with negative images and stories, do you think the people hearing and seeing it will be positive? No! How can they be when all they hear or see are bad things? It's just like telling a child that they will never be anything. Sooner or later, they are going to start believing that they will never be anything. That is exactly what is happening to us as a society. We're being told that there are a lot of bad people in the world and that everybody is out to get us. While it may be true that there are bad people out there, the fact is that there are many more good people than bad. But, the focus and emphasis has been so much on the bad that everyone is looked at that way. To me...that is just sad. It's a state of paranoia! Hasn't Bush proved how powerful fear can be in getting people to do things that they wouldn't normally do? Have you noticed how much of your freedom and liberties you have given up all in the sake of national security? If that isn't a good example of how to manipulate people by using their fears...I don't know what else is!
I write all this to point out that there are people that are genuinely trying to help people. But, people are so programmed to be skeptical that they don't even recognize it even when it's right in their face. I consider myself a good person and do my best to help people all the time. That's just my nature! But, it's amazing to me how quick people are to shoot things that come out of my mouth before they really listen. If a person like Donald Trump or Kobe Bryant were to show or tell people something, they would listen. Show up on Oprah...and they'll be listened to. Get on Dr. Phil and you have a better chance of being heard. But, when a regular person that is trying to do the same good tries, they are shot down. What's wrong with this picture?
Why is it that people are so willing to be blind? Why are people scared to take off their blinders and see what's around them? Why are people so scared to listen and be open? Why are people so willing to be followers and be lead like sheep? I don't know all the answers. But, from my observation, things won't change until people open their eyes and see things from a different perspective. When opportunities present themselves...take them! Opportunities open doors to other opportunities! Stop being scared of making a mistake as progress is only made through trial and error...mistakes. Theodore Roosevelt said, "A man that makes no mistakes...makes no progress!". Translation...if you're not willing to make an effort and try...then you will stay stagnant until you do! Wake up people! There are opportunities out there that can impact your life more than you realize...if only you would open your eyes to see. Life won't change...until you change!
I'm sitting down to write this blog because I felt that it was important to me to let others know about my journey to a new me. Some would ask...why do I need to know that...while others would say...that's cool! The reason I do this is to confirm and validate my commitment to myself to become a better person in all aspects of my life!
I've been doing a lot of observing lately and I've noticed some interesting things. So….check it out!
Where do I start? Well...it's good to start from the beginning. :)